Bernd 2021-10-09 11:29:05 ⋅ 2mn No. 124436
Bumble date on sunday
Bernd 2021-10-09 12:20:22 ⋅ 2mn No. 124439
Bernd 2021-10-09 15:28:47 ⋅ 2mn No. 124450
Whats bumble date?
Bernd 2021-10-09 15:34:07 ⋅ 2mn No. 124451
How does Bumble compare with Tinder and OKC?
Bernd 2021-10-09 17:56:25 ⋅ 2mn No. 124457
>>124450 Bumble is a dating app similar to tinder. >>124451 I haven't really used OKC. But I prefer bumble to tinder because it makes it a bit easier to put text on your profile and grilles usually have more info on it compared to tinder. In my city there seems to be more university students from social sciences on bumble. I'm not sure if that is a good description, but a slightly different crowd. The gimmick is that only women can text first, so maybe that seems more feminist to some.
Bernd 2021-10-10 17:19:24 ⋅ 1mn No. 124531
We kissed :3
Bernd 2021-10-14 15:08:04 ⋅ 1mn No. 124760
We're planning to meet again, but I feel kinda sick at the moment.
Bernd 2021-10-14 18:58:29 ⋅ 1mn No. 124784
I got some wine for us. I really hope I'm not sick on the weekend.
Bernd 2021-10-14 19:13:33 ⋅ 1mn No. 124786
>>124784 Good luck Bernd, i hope you get to coom deep insider her and maybe even build a loving relationship. t. alsways messes up in dating apps and loses faith in them and himself
Bernd 2021-10-14 19:24:41 ⋅ 1mn No. 124788
>>124786 I also "always" mess up. I went on several dozen dates last winter until summer when I kinda stopped trying. Then, all of a sudden, this girl messages me and asks to meet for coffee. I went there, we talked and I wanted to say goodbye, but she asked to hang out in another place and we kissed. Similarly, about two years ago I thought there was nobody I wanted to see on tinder, but then I matched with this girl I thought was a bot at first, because her pictures were so good. We text for weeks and eventually she becomes my fwb for about a years. I'm saying, don't lose hope and don't stop trying. Maybe switch things up or do something else, but never stop trying. Thanks for the good wishes, too :3
Bernd 2021-10-15 09:36:11 ⋅ 1mn No. 124814
>>124788 >all of a sudden, this girl messages me and asks to meet for coffee You mean, a girl you hadn't talked to chatted with before...?
Bernd 2021-10-15 11:47:29 ⋅ 1mn No. 124839
>>124814 Right. We matched and she opened with "hey, how about some coffee on the weekend"
Bernd 2021-10-15 15:43:09 ⋅ 1mn No. 124849
>>124839 That's the best sign, if the girls opens the chat, those are the ones I've been most successful with. What app was that you were using in this situation?
Bernd 2021-10-15 16:50:37 ⋅ 1mn No. 124850
>>124849 Bumble. This app forces girls to send the first message, but usually it is just "hey :)" or some comment about a picture on my profile. No girl has ever asked me out for a date on the first message.
Bernd 2021-10-15 23:34:59 ⋅ 1mn No. 124873
Second date tomorrow.
Bernd 2021-10-16 00:01:43 ⋅ 1mn No. 124879
Bernd 2021-10-19 16:44:17 ⋅ 1mn No. 125099
We were supposed to meet again today, but I got sick and had to cancel. I'm immediately thrown back into a depression and feeling of worthlessness because now I can't realize plans I had made for this week and it feels just like when I did nothing because of depression. When we met, we had a short talk about our relationship. She said that she is just looking for a bit of fun at the moment and just came out of a long relationship and doesn't want to jump into one again. That seemed ok for me at the moment, but now I'm thinking I maybe want a bit more. I feel really bummed that she isn't here to care for me now and I had to pace myself with texting her, because I kinda wanted to hear about her day and how work was and stuff :( So I'm a bit bummed but I also know I wanted to learn and experience more about relationships since I missed out on that earlier in life. I'm doing some of that learning and experiencing now, I think.
Bernd 2021-10-21 10:35:41 ⋅ 1mn No. 125183
Still sick :(
Bernd 2021-10-26 21:45:34 ⋅ 1mn No. 125503
Feeling better. When I feel good again tomorrow I'll ask her if we can see each other again :3
Bernd 2021-10-26 23:15:35 ⋅ 1mn No. 125517
>>125513 I think so. I don't know her that well yet, we've only met twice. But I feel really comfortable with her and she seems like a wholesome person. All I want to do right now is cuddle with her. But I'm not sure yet if we can be together long term... She said she just comes out of a serious relationship and is more interested in "fun" at the moment. So we'll see how it goes.
Bernd 2021-10-27 00:08:47 ⋅ 1mn No. 125523
>>125517 Good luck, don't fall in love too quickly, Berndu ;) I recently showed interest in a girl but she rejected a date. She seemed nice at first. Soon later I learned that she spams tiktoks and twitch livestreams and shiet and likely is surrounded by orbiters so I dropped her. Now, a month later she is begging me to join her "new band" and wants me to help her find more people for her projects. Typical woman behaviour. Ridiculous.
Bernd 2021-10-27 00:20:04 ⋅ 1mn No. 125526
>>125523 >Good luck, don't fall in love too quickly, Berndu ;) We'll see. I'm 26 but I have only had one serious relationship and started dating kinda late. (I was a virgin until 19). I think there is some value in just experiencing more careless love like a teenager to make up for past experiences, but I also don't really know what I want. I'll just let things happen and go with the flow. For now I know I like this girl and want to spend time with her. There are doubts in the back of my head but I don't want them to stop me from experiencing and learning about life.
Bernd 2021-10-27 00:29:46 ⋅ 1mn No. 125528
>>125527 It is on the later end of average and I had no experiences with women prior. And no normal experiences after. It was always some weird fwb, cuck, cheating or asexual thing.
Bernd 2021-10-28 09:12:38 ⋅ 1mn No. 125636
Meeting her again on saturday 🥰
Bernd 2021-10-28 16:15:28 ⋅ 1mn No. 125675
Bernd 2021-10-29 15:15:49 ⋅ 1mn No. 125731
>>125636 Postponed for sunday 😐 But we texted a bit and it is nice talking to her. I hope she doesn't just want me for sex and we can have a deeper relationship.
Bernd 2021-10-29 17:16:22 ⋅ 1mn No. 125735
>>125734 it's because they are constantly [i]projecting[/i]
Bernd 2021-10-31 19:45:38 ⋅ 1mn No. 125902
Ok, I'll stop updating this threda since nobody seems to care but it seems to be going well and I'm happy :3 We're all gonna make it, Bernds.
Bernd 2021-10-31 22:16:45 ⋅ 1mn No. 125921
>>125902 it's cool I just don't know what to reply also I wish I had a gf to go on date with
Bernd 2021-11-03 16:05:01 ⋅ 1mn No. 126152
I made the mistake of fapping the same day as meeting her. But then I couldn't cum anymore during fuggenings, felt bad. I have difficulty achieving orgasm anyways. Condoms and alcohol make it even more difficult. She said she loses her libido on the pill, so I don't see condoms being out of the picture anytime soon. We'll see how we will make dealings with this problem. In any case, I mostly lost the interest to look at porn or fap on my own time anyways, I just did it out of habit yesterday. But real life sex satisfies horniness much better and longer lasting than masturbation. I'll try to just not do it if the opportunity to fug is near.
Bernd 2021-11-03 16:08:58 ⋅ 1mn No. 126157
>>126152 I take back my words. ==WE'VE GOT A FUCKING KEIN IN OUR ROWS==
Bernd 2021-11-03 16:11:34 ⋅ 1mn No. 126158
>>126157 I'm still insecure, awkward and mentally ill. But after two years of not being touched by women I have managed to wet my noodle again, yes. I also have a big benin and know how to use it, so once they give me a chance they like to come back for sex. I'm suffering, though, because often I rail them for hours and can't even cum. Don't circumcise your kids, Bernds, and please try to invent better kinds of birth control.
Bernd 2021-11-03 16:43:11 ⋅ 1mn No. 126162
>>126158 Whoa whoa, are you some sorta turk to end up with a cut bepis in the Germany?
Bernd 2021-11-03 16:54:02 ⋅ 1mn No. 126163
>>126162 I had phimosis (tight foreskin) as a child and got urinary tract infections as a result. Doctors recommended circumcision and thus it was done. I know two or three other guys with a similar fate. I never had any problems, can fap and fuck just fine. But cumming during sex is a bit more difficult compared to other guys, from what I hear. Especially with condoms it can be a little challenge. The majority of times I do cum just fine, but it can be an issue.
Bernd 2021-11-03 17:14:03 ⋅ 1mn No. 126164
>>126163 At least you had an excuse. My parents lobbed mine off and as a result I don't feel anything during sex but I sure can feel my cock chafe when I'm walking or doing any physical activity.
Bernd 2021-11-03 18:11:12 ⋅ 1mn No. 126166
>>126164 No use in crying about spilled milk of the past. Only dealing with problems of today matters. Regarding chafing I recommend getting proper underwear that cradles your benin and secures it snugly.
Bernd 2021-11-03 18:15:56 ⋅ 1mn No. 126167
>>126166 I found using loose fitting sweat pants to be the best alternative.
Bernd 2021-11-03 19:26:10 ⋅ 1mn No. 126180
>>126163 Dogdors wanted to snibbedi snab my foresking too. As a kid I had irrational fear of benin falling out of skin if I pull it too far back. Dogdor didn't get the issue is psychological, not physiological. It's fixed itself tho. Well, mostly. Feels a bit tighter than it should be
Bernd 2021-11-03 20:09:50 ⋅ 1mn No. 126197
404 foreskin squad reporting in i even said i dont want this as a kid at ~5 y/o when I was shown the different ways of how the doctor could remove my foreskin on a piece of paper i said i dont want the one with the most foreskin removed but they didnt give a fuck
Bernd 2021-11-04 00:06:29 ⋅ 1mn No. 126219
>>126197 Can someone make me a mod please? I want to delete that picture.
Bernd 2021-11-15 03:17:36 ⋅ 3w No. 126979
She is sick at home atm. She said she would have asked for a date if she wasn't sick and declined when I offered to bring her chicken soup. Anyways, she decided to start watching Star Trek and I recommended starting with TNG. She got through Encounter at Farpoint without quitting but said she hasn't really warmed up to Star Trek yet. Do you think she will?