I don't know either.
I don't get trans and non-binary people.
I mean I kinda understand if you want to switch genders, but I don't get this weirdness about being they/them and stuff. I think they are either just doing it for attention, sjw-points or haven't yet fully accepted that they're trans.
Trannyism is less about strongly feeling that you are the opposite gender, but rather just misc. identity disorder where they themselves have no idea what the fuck they are.
It's not that they are women born in a man's body, but they are men that just feel "off".
Once they transition, cut off their dicks, take hormones, they realize they still feel "off", and that's when they KYS.
It's a mental identity disorder, not "being born in the wrong body disorder".
For some trannies transitioning is enough of cope for them to not go full KYS mode, but for most it's not.
Successful trannies also tend to pass really well and find newfound attention, success and social connections they never previously had, and all this will negate the natural KYS feels they might have.
So in the end it's not about successfully transitioning into your "true gender" but about finding some niche where you can cope with your absolutely fucked sense of identity with.
Transitioning is a cope at best, which doesn't even work for most trannies.
