Yeah you are right.
But this means womens are bitching and being hysterical more when they aren't being basically raped? With this in mind, is rape even bad? I have been around women who claim they were "basically raped" - ie semi-coerced into sex in some way (which they ultimately yielded to) and not just outright pulled aside and raped. this is supposed to be the worst thing in the world according to the modern zeitgeist but women really just use it to parade around their victim status and use rape as a badge of honour, can't be unspeakably horrible with that being the case. You just nod at these women and go yeah whatever so they feel validated. Current legal and moral conventions surrounding "rape" do not reflect the real reality of human sexual behaviour and define a lot of what is completely healthy as rape.
You will probably think that this is retarded, there are a lot of cases of clear-cut rape such as during wars or with forced sex in general. Even then, women totally fail to protest this or treat it as an unspeakable horror when actually faced with it (and not just when whining at men who cave in to every demand they make). I remember reading a story from Austria in which the women were discussing that the Russians were approaching, and when asked what to do about the fact the Red Army would rape them they simply responded that they would "look at the sky". Women exhibit no real loyalty to groups or creeds and sleep with invaders constantly.
Women love a man who can overpower, even rape them, and who can overpower, even kill, other men. Along with facial structure as a marker of immune system function and testosterone levels/nutrition during development, women are most attracted to bigger stronger men - being a manlet SEVERELY limits your dating pool and women will just not see you sexually if you are not imposing. In this study with tens of thousands of speed daters, it was found that women are happiest when their male partner is 25 centimetres taller than them. If you look at a bell curve of male and female heights, a man who is 25 centimetres taller than the average women is in the 80th percentile of male height (haha funny number). They select for men who strongly rebuke their constant attempts to antagonise them with "shit tests", even if it's with a pimp slap, who "make them feel safe" by being a threat to anyone who would try and mess with her, and who are willing to engage in dark triad/violent behaviours to get their way. Women in prisons and psych wards for dangerous schizos love to have sex with the violent patients, a significant portion do.
So is it possible that focussing on what women want is ultimately futile, since women are happiest with males who do not need to have much regard for her inane whinging about what makes her happy in the first place? Of course this is based on what women actually do and not what comes out of their mouths