Relatable. When my father was my age he was already in the process of building his house.

for me, dreams weren't had in the first place

Mostly this

 

But

 

I always wanted to visit Germany. I felt like it would be great seeing all the history and meeting people. But I'm now 27 and likely wouldn't have many chances to have much fun. I'm pretty much exactly like OP

 

t. miserable company lover

speaking logically most people would be losers (nearly by definition, grass is greener etc theres always someone who is better than you lol)

identifying as loser is bad tho (or a winner w/e)

 

 

don't dream big

don't set goals

don't take action

 

 

its literally all about Wu Wei that west doesn't have and they have to put ad-hoc like 'loser' concept

Better to set easily obtainable dreams, or semi long term goals.

 

I’ve set up what I want to do up until I hit 27.

From then on I don’t know what the fuck to do.

 

t. 25