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Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 09:46:44 ⋅ 9mn No. 123936
First session with psychotherapist tomorrow.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 09:50:09 ⋅ 9mn No. 123937
Enjoy your motivation interviews.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 09:57:47 ⋅ 9mn No. 123938
>>123937 What's that?
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 10:04:46 ⋅ 9mn No. 123939
>>123938 Motivationsgespräche - i didn't know how to translate it correctly. They will motivate you doing things in whatever you interest.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 10:15:22 ⋅ 9mn No. 123940
How long have you been waiting for an appointment?
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 10:17:54 ⋅ 9mn No. 123942
How long have you been waiting for an appointment? What kind of therapy? I guess CBT?
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 10:25:28 ⋅ 9mn No. 123943
>>123939 Interesting. >>123940 >>123942 Not long. It is a service provided by my university. I don't know what king of therapy it is.
Finland Bernd 2021-10-04 13:57:04 ⋅ 9mn No. 123955
>>123942 Cuck and Bull Treatment?
Norway Bernd 2021-10-04 14:20:43 ⋅ 9mn No. 123956
are you a crazy person? don't stab me >>123955 hehe pwned
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 15:10:43 ⋅ 9mn No. 123962
>>123955 Cognitive behavioral therapy
Germany Bernd 2021-10-04 15:24:10 ⋅ 9mn No. 123963
So why do you need therapy? Will you talk to a man or a woman? Do you have GF?
Slovenia Bernd 2021-10-04 16:17:38 ⋅ 9mn No. 123972
there is man psychotherapist in ljubljana whom is redpilled his therapy consists of taking his patients out and help them get laid
Finland Bernd 2021-10-04 16:28:14 ⋅ 9mn No. 123973
>>123972 >ljubljana >ljubljana >ljubljana Slav overload was had
Bernd 2021-10-04 16:37:30 ⋅ 9mn No. 123974
>>123972 can you get me an appointment with him? t. pure
Slovenia Bernd 2021-10-04 16:41:36 ⋅ 9mn No. 123975
>>123974 I can't even get it for myself t. blackpilled
Hungary Bernd 2021-10-04 16:54:09 ⋅ 9mn No. 123976
Good luck.
New Zealand Bernd 2021-10-05 00:20:13 ⋅ 9mn No. 123999
>>123972 I feel cheated after knowing I helped my former friends get laid just to do whirl some freshness into my life and I didn't even charge them.
Finland Bernd 2021-10-05 00:49:02 ⋅ 9mn No. 124003
>>123999 How did you help them?
New Zealand Bernd 2021-10-05 03:22:10 ⋅ 9mn No. 124007
>>124003 I'm good at meeting new people, so me and whichever buddy I'd help would just be silly on the streets and eventually like moths to a flame, women would turn up and I'd try making my friend (usually an autistic or neurotic fellow) appear reasonably normal. Problems were when the grills become indecisive because of two fine looking men playing games and we both lose. Still good fun, plus I like heckling and bantering with women before tossing them and finding another to renew that freshness.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-05 06:06:00 ⋅ 9mn No. 124022
>>124007 >eventually they show up like moths to a flame Sensei, unless you have 10/10 looks, please tell me your tricks to start talking to women on the street. t. kein apprentice
New Zealand Bernd 2021-10-05 06:36:00 ⋅ 9mn No. 124025
>>124022 >10/10 looks It's don't and that's where your issue arises from. Insecurity stifles any confidence. As soon as you lose your immature behaviour about socializing, you'll soon realise how easy it is to start a conversation regardless of what you look like or what you're doing. Being in a high traffic area and having music also helps.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-05 06:46:50 ⋅ 9mn No. 124027
>>124025 >having music ?
New Zealand Bernd 2021-10-05 07:07:31 ⋅ 9mn No. 124029
>>124027 Create a vibe others want to join in on. Make the atmosphere come alive in your little bubble with an instrument or a speaker. Being approachable helps to foster a good mood everyone can relax in.
Finland Bernd 2021-10-10 08:39:52 ⋅ 8mn No. 124508
how did it go bernd?
Germany Bernd 2021-10-10 17:17:19 ⋅ 8mn No. 124530
>>124508 Basically I told her for 40 minutes why I came there and the session was only 45 minutes, so there wasn't much else happening. She said something about an issue that gave me a different perspective, which I liked, and I got another appointment next week. Felt good, will continue.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-16 02:06:12 ⋅ 8mn No. 124905
Last free session of uni psych helper today. I got lists with different types of therapists and need to call them to get an appointment now. Should I try to get behavioural therapy or psychoanalysis? I kinda feel like psychoanalysis is Freud bs about penis envy and fugging moms. Also: Psych helper (female) said I'm nice to talk to when I told her about my constant assumptions that everyone who gets to know me hates me.
New Zealand Bernd 2021-10-16 02:17:03 ⋅ 8mn No. 124907
>>124905 >>124905 Can you get hypnosis? I'd like to think its less quackery than being psychoanalyzed, which could be misleading if you follow the analysis to heart.
Moscow Bernd 2021-10-16 07:28:01 ⋅ 8mn No. 124918
>>124905 >behavioural therapy Go this direction, bernd. It mostly consists of you working on self-improving instead of just talking to a nice person.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-16 09:10:42 ⋅ 8mn No. 124929
>>124918 Sounds good, will do.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-17 15:53:23 ⋅ 8mn No. 125017
Free uni guidance is over. I will start calling real therapists tomorrow and try to get an appointment.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-24 19:40:13 ⋅ 8mn No. 125364
Still don't have an appointment with a proper therapist.
Moscow Bernd 2021-10-24 20:39:10 ⋅ 8mn No. 125365
>>125364 I'm this >>124918 guy. You might start yourself by reading this book and doing the exercises it describes. There are some chapters for the therapists, but mostly it's aimed at patients.
Netherlands Bernd 2021-10-24 21:06:28 ⋅ 8mn No. 125369
Are therapists worth it at all? Been considering seeing one but they feel like an absolute scam
Germany Bernd 2021-10-24 21:14:54 ⋅ 8mn No. 125370
>>125365 Thanks. Maybe I'll take a look. I'm trying to focus on improving aspects of my life I already know need improvement first, though. Today I have written an E-Mail to a therapist and I have marked the phone availability for two others in my calender for tomorrow. Now I'll set an alarm clock, get sleep and try to call them tomorrow morning as if I had a real job. >>125369 Please, I do not want to have a kohlface discussion about "muh dumb woman with a college degree can't tell me anything". Health insurance pays for therapy, that must mean it is worth it, at least on average. I have already profited from some of the preliminary talks.
United States Bernd 2021-10-24 22:46:58 ⋅ 8mn No. 125381
>>125370 You're already changing yourself. Much of the help we receive from therapists is the emotional support, and the few tricks they've been taught to make the patient ensure they continue their positive patterns. If you really want to improve your life, you'd could out imageboards and the vitriol breeding on certain sites. Life changes when you've stripped out media and shitposting from your life.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-25 10:58:06 ⋅ 8mn No. 125391
Got an appointment now. But it is in 4 weeks. And then there will be preliminary talks again where I tell my problems to a new person. And after that we will have to apply for a proper therapy being paid for by the medical insurance. So it seems unrealistic that a real therapy will start before next year. I was hoping to have professional support before starting projects in my life I'm a bit afraid of. But it seems like that is not a realistic option anymore. I'll have to start moving on my own if I don't want to look at a fully wasted year. We'll see how it goes. Maybe I'll write a little diary here, I have some ideas about changed behaviour. One of them being: I need to stop creating a facade of a capable person who knows what they're doing. It hasn't served me well in the past. People always assume I'm super smart, organized and have my shit together. And then they're completely surprised when I fuck up and fail. I need to be more honest and look and ask for help whereever I can get it. Obviously I need to proceed carefully, because going too extreme on this is also not good. Nobody likes a whiny loser who asks for help all day. Maybe I'll invest some time into reading >>125365 and other self-help literature and formulate a more detailed plan for myself. >>125381 see >>125370
Germany Bernd 2021-10-27 15:45:43 ⋅ 8mn No. 125576
So I just stumbled upon the term "ADHD paralysis" and have been reading up on it. It sounds really like one of the mental problems I have, even though nobody suspected that I might have ADHD or any similar thing. Now I'm wondering how I could get a diagnosis.
Canada Bernd 2021-10-27 17:02:35 ⋅ 8mn No. 125593
>>125576 Does the diagnosis lead to welfare and drugs?
Germany Bernd 2021-10-27 17:59:37 ⋅ 8mn No. 125597
>>125593 Fuck off.
Canada Bernd 2021-10-27 18:25:39 ⋅ 8mn No. 125599
>>125597 It's a genuine question.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-27 18:49:52 ⋅ 8mn No. 125601
>>125599 I have no idea.
Canada Bernd 2021-10-27 18:58:50 ⋅ 8mn No. 125606
>>125601 Ah right, just clarifying my assumptions. A lot of Bernds before have used false pretenses to abuse their benefit systems.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-27 19:01:10 ⋅ 8mn No. 125608
>>125606 Something like that is not going to get you neetbux I'm 99% sure and if you want neetbux on the germany you are basically not allowed to have any assets, so that's not an option I want to pursue in any way. I just want to be able to finish my masters degree and get a job like a normal human bean but I'm too retarded to do so and I don't really know why.
Canada Bernd 2021-10-27 19:08:59 ⋅ 8mn No. 125613
>>125608 Sounds like you're searching for excuses to justify your lifestyle. It may help better understand yourself or falsely veil yourself in a new set of mannerisms you feel compelled to act out.
Germany Bernd 2021-10-27 19:47:11 ⋅ 8mn No. 125618
>>125613 No it doesn't. Fuck off.